Offering in-person sessions in Spokane, WA or online for anyone in Washington state.
White Flag, 104 S Freya St Suite 320, Spokane, WA 99202 | (509) 761-9961

Find relief and create deeper connection
to yourself and others

Therapy for adults, teens and children in Spokane and across Washington

It’s never too late to transform your life and relationships

Hi, we are Secure Intimacy Marriage and Family Counseling

You're not alone

We can help you create the life you want.
We offer a safe space where you can heal your wounds, find reprieve from your stress and connect with yourself and your deepest needs. We are confident you have what it takes to live a whole hearted and fulfilling life. We are here to guide and support you.
We are a leading counseling clinic in Spokane, Washington and provide results and healing through our team of licensed marriage and family therapists and mental health counselors.

What we do

Experienced and specialized counselors

You’ll find a warm, private space where you can openly express your thoughts and feelings. Receive personalized support and guidance, helping you to explore your personal challenges and to grow and develop a stronger sense of self.

Receive support and insight from others facing similar issues, fostering a sense of community and shared understanding. You will have opportunities to learn new coping strategies and skills through sharing and interacting with others in the group.

Using Emotionally Focused Therapy, you and your partner will delve into understanding each other’s emotions, fostering deeper intimacy and a stronger bond. Together, you’ll work towards a more secure, loving relationship, where both of you feel heard, valued, and intimately connected.

You’ll find a supportive and understanding space where you can freely express yourself and explore your unique challenges. It’s a safe haven for you to discover your strengths, navigate through life’s ups and downs, and grow into the person you aspire to be.

You and your loved ones will embark on a journey towards understanding and resolving conflicts, bringing you closer together as a family. It’s a warm, supportive space where you’ll learn to communicate better, heal, and grow, strengthening the bonds that unite you.

Your child will discover a fun and creative space where they can express themselves and work through challenges in a way that feels natural and engaging. This approach helps them build confidence, learn new coping skills, and understand their emotions, all within a safe and nurturing environment

How we work

Connect. Cultivate. Empower.

Reach Out

Schedule a free 15 minute consultation and let's talk! You can ask questions and get a feel for your counselor's style and see if they are a good fit for you.

Get Support

We will meet you where you are at and help you take steps to connect with yourself and start working towards healing.

Transform Your Life

Make shifts in areas of your life that lead you to live the life you have always wanted.


Everyone deserves to feel their best

Call us with any questions or book an appointment today!

Monday - Friday

8:00am – 7:00pm





Investment $75 – $185 per 50 minute session


Frequently asked questions

We are happy to answer any questions you may have, click on the link below or call (509) 761-9961

Appointments available.

Yes! We offer our counseling services in-person as well as through secure video or phone sessions. We can offer this to anyone living anywhere in Washington State.

We offer counseling for individuals, couples, families, kids and teens. Our therapists are trained in Emotionally Focused Therapy, Life Span Integration, Brain Spotting and Play Therapy. We also offer groups for couples affected by unwanted pornography use, infidelity and other forms of sexual cheating.

We are considered out of network providers meaning we do not take insurance. Insurance companies have the right to access your therapy notes and determine how many sessions they will allow us. They can decide to no longer cover sessions based on their interpretation of your progress and also require us to give you a diagnosis for billing purposes.

We are passionate about being able to meet you where you are at in your process of healing and growth and don’t believe that people fit into the boxes insurance often requires of them.

We are happy to offer you a superbill to file with your insurance company for possible partial reimbursement of the session fee.

Our standard appointment is 50 minutes. Eighty-minute sessions available upon request.

A “Good Faith Estimate” explains how much your medical and mental health care will cost. You can ask for this before you schedule a session.
Under the law, health care provides need to give patients who don’t have insurance, or who are not using insurance, an estimate of the expected charges for medical service, including psychotherapy services. Please inform us if you do not have insurance or don’t plan to use insurance, and you will be provided with a Good Faith Estimate.
For questions or more information about your right to a Good Faith Estimate, visit

We will send you paperwork to complete prior to our first meeting to gain a more in depth understanding of your concerns, needs, and goals. In our first session we will begin getting to know each other and you may share as much as you feel comfortable about yourself and current concerns. Sometimes this can feel strange and too open ended, and in that case your counselor will ask questions to help guide the conversation.

We have session rates to meet any budget. Our student therapists are $75 a session. Associates are $150/session and senior therapists are $185/session. Session times are 50 minutes. Our groups are $60 for a 90 minute group session.

Do You Qualify For Reimbursement?

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We have partnered with Mentaya to help clients use their out-of-network benefits to save money on therapy. Fill out the form to the right to see if you qualify for reimbursement for our services.